What do we do with Halloween?
“Hey!” The man raised an arm from across the fence. It was just a few days after our move, and our new neighbor was waving us down to say hello. Immediately he looked at Jeff and said, “Now you’re a pastor, right?” (You never know what’s coming after that!) Jeff said yes and the man continued, “Come on over, I have to show you something!”
So we all followed him over to his property, unsure of what was ahead, and he led us all the way across his land and around the back of his house, to this elaborate outdoor tent-like structure built out of sticks, twigs, branches and canvas (huge!), with a sort of arbor, almost altar-like thing at the front. we were wide-eyed of course, and he went on to explain that they were celebrating the Feast of Tabernacles and hosting their Jewish synagogue’s Feast of Tabernacles service in this outdoor “tabernacle” that he’d built.
(The Feast of tabernacles or feast of booths was a weeklong celebration, instituted by God in Leviticus 23, to remember the years that the children of Israel carried the tabernacle through the wilderness and lived in tents or booths. To his credit, this man had followed the biblical directions exactly for building his twig-stick structure.)
So Jeff’s talking to the man and I’m thinking it all looks really weird and the kids are a little spooked so they start back to our house. Some friends were over at the time and the whole encounter raised some interesting questions, especially with another certain holiday just around the corner right? In fact we were laughing about how ironic it is that our Christian friends are preparing to celebrate Halloween while our non-Christian neighbors are celebrating the biblical feasts!
So, yesterday in Bible study we looked at Galatians 4:8-11 and discussed How Christians are to relate to culture. That is, Are we to shun Halloween, celebrate it, dress up as Bible characters? Hand out gospel tracts to the kids that knock on our door? What is the Christian’s relation to holidays and holy days? Here are a few biblical principles to consider, to help as you navigate this issue for yourself. (Click here for audio of the entire message.)
1. We are free. Colossians 2:16-17 says, “Therefore let no one pass judgment on you in questions of food and drink, or with regard to a festival or a new moon or a Sabbath. These are a shadow of the things to come, but the substance belongs to Christ.”
It’s clear that Christ fulfilled the law, and that all the OT festivals, feasts, and sabbaths are a shadow of Christ. They all speak of Christ. So we are not to let others pass judgment on us for not observing them, because they are just shadows, and the real thing is here now. The wrong isn’t necessarily in celebrating something, the wrong is giving in to the the fear of man and not the fear of God.
2. We are to do all things “in honor of the Lord.” Romans 14:4-6 says, “Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each should be fully convinced in his own mind. The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God.”
Again, we read the command is to “not judge one another!” We often get so concerned in what Christians should or should not do, when the real thing we should be concerned about is not judging! But who are we to judge, if you will? Ourselves. Be “fully convinced in your own mind.” That is, figure out your convictions and stick by them. And what you decide to do, do it” in honor of the Lord.” If you can honestly say that the choice that you make is “ in honor of the Lord,” awesome! Praise God. You stand and fall before Him and no one else.
3. We are to do all things “for the sake of the gospel.” 1 Cor. 9:19-23 explains that Paul became like the Jews to win the Jews to Christ, he became like the Gentiles to win the Gentiles to Christ. Everything he did he did “for the sake of the gospel.” Paul’s guiding principle, with regard to culture, was, Is this the best route to win people to Christ and spread the gospel of grace?
For the Galatians, the problem was not the holiday, it was the slave-spirit in which they observed it. The problem was once again legalism and the fear of man. Paul was a free man, and the 1 Corinthians passage shows us that he was free to observe or not observe for the sake of the gospel. The question then, for us to be discerning culturally, is “Am I doing this for the sake of the gospel?”
For our family, our personal conviction is that we don’t celebrate Halloween. Honestly, I hate Halloween. I can truly see no redemptive value in it. Plus, I spent several years discipling a girl who came out of a background of the occult and horrendous witchcraft practices. Knowing, from her, what the “real” Halloween is all about has made me detest the holiday. Plus, since Christ conquered sin and death, we do not celebrate sin or celebrate death.
However, note THIS: It is possible to engage in Halloween festivities for the sake of the gospel and in honoring God. It is also possible to celebrate Easter (or Christmas) in a way that doesn’t honor God or further the gospel at all. It is possible to celebrate Passover and the feast of tabernacles, as a family, in a way that celebrates Christ and honors God and furthers the gospel. It is also possible to observe those same things in a spirit of slavery, of legalism. It is possible to observe certain holidays in a spirit of thinking we’re somehow spiritual superior because we observe them. And it’s possible to NOT observe certain holidays in a spirit of thinking that we’re somehow spiritually superior because we don’t observe them.
The key, as always: the heart.
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{Response: How does your family celebrate or not celebrate in honor of God and for the sake of the gospel? I would love to hear your thoughts and perspective. Thanks, friends, for reading.}
On giving. {Where we've landed … for now.}
Oh friends, it feels so good to land.
This last weekend I flew over to Bend for a women’s conference, and while it was wonderful to be there, and fun to fly over the beautiful cascade mountains, there’s just such a wonderful feeling about landing. Especially for a “J” like me, I like when things are settled, stable, at least for a bit.
This past year has been a flight of sorts, a bit of a free-fall with our house on the market and a serious re-positioning and re-considering of our finances, giving, and general life-priorities. I posted here, about our huge “aha!” moment of realizing that we could do so much good with money we were spending on our huge mortgage. So, we made a leap of faith and began giving 41%, living on just 18% of our income for awhile.
We made it a few months. While it’s true that we can’t “outgive God” it’s also true that at this point we just couldn’t make it on that small amount. Well, we could do it, but we wouldn’t be able to eat or drive. (Small things.) So, it’s been a year-long process of “landing,” that is figuring out what God would have us give and live on in this season of our life, still dreaming of giving more, but being reasonable about our current situation. I share all this because I’d like to just be honest through the process, perhaps it can be helpful, challenging, encouraging, or inspiring. I also wanted to make sure we weren’t mis-leading anyone by having you think we still gave 41% … so in the name of encouragement, honesty, and integrity:
Here’s where we’ve landed.
Our dream would be to give half our income away. Not because we’d somehow be more spiritual but because I would just love to be able to DO that much with the money God’s given us. However, it’s just not realistic right now. So, baby steps.
Last year we were teaching Dutch about money: earning, saving, and giving. He earned $4 and we laid each of the four dollar bills out in front of him. As we interacted with him, we together decided that he would give $1, save $1, and use $2. He then used his $2 to buy a toy for Heidi and a toy for himself (since part of the money we use goes to providing for our family, not just ourselves.) Jeff and I both were struck by the simplicity, and thought that for now we’d adopt the general rule for our family budget as well:
- Give 25%
- Save 25%
- Live on 50%
Using this as a model, we would get used to living on 50% and then (Lord willing) if we are someday able to own a house outright, we could reduce the “save” portion and increase the “give” portion. Who knows what the future holds, but at least it’s a step in the right direction.
- 58% goes to our church home.
- 18% goes to Un-reached people groups.
- 13% goes to missionaries in developing nations.
- 11% goes to child sponsorship.
No longer simply an echo, now a voice
“When the character of Christ is formed within, you are no longer simply an echo but a voice.”
~Erwin McManus, Uprising
Maybe that’s this thing I feel? This peace, calm, confidence. More storms are sure to come, yes, there will no doubt be posts that come filled with doubt and question. With wavering. That’s life in human skin. But just as I testify and find grace in the failures and falterings, can I testify and find grace in the victories as well? Certainly something has shifted.
Whenever we say yes to Christ and no to the other voices, if even in small things, when we turn down the cacophony and lean in hard to the tune of His grace, perhaps He lets us sing along? A strong, sure voice comes from our soul that maybe sounds a little different than the noisy clamoring of our world?
I just mean this: How can we make the world listen? This is my question. We’ve been talking long about how to share our faith in the workplace, with our neighbors, in the million mission fields we encounter.
What if we were different? And I don’t mean just wearing turtlenecks. The world is not impressed by whether we homeschool or drink raw milk or read our Bibles every day (And I think all those are great, by the way). But would the world listen if we actually had a voice? If we were no longer simply an echo but a voice? If we had a deeper motivation to life. If instead of grumbling, thanksgiving spilled out all the time. If authenticity and true joy characterized our days? I don’t mean a front. Spray paint won’t work.
But what about confidence? What about feathers that cannot be ruffled? A peace that cannot be shaken? What if we let Christ’s character be formed in us?
I have a friend in a trying circumstance and she is letting Christ’s character be formed in her. She knows it, hates it, and loves it. It’s painful. It always is, isn’t it? But isn’t it true that it’s worth it? So worth it to have a voice instead of merely an echo?
Maybe the world will hear that and glorify God.
{Ya’ll promise to remind me of this next time I’m lamenting some trial, ok? I pray this can be encouraging today. Thanks for reading.}
Week's end with thanks
- My two pirates. After spending the night with my parents they were delivered back to me fully clad in pirate costumes. Hats, patches and hooks. Yes, that’s a skull and crossbones on those hats. Oh dear.
- CS Lewis.
- Late night studying, God providing the perfect quote and truth to teach. Oh He is so gracious to us!
- Flying to Bend. What a luxury!
- Momma-in-law who picks me up, takes me out, lets me in.
- Being taken care of.
- Auto-brew timer on the coffee pot.
- Post-it notes.
- Fridge full.
- Forty lbs. of organic Fujis.
- Quiet.
- Soft lamp-light.
- Scent of rosemary and basil laundry.
- Homemade laundry soap.
- Glimpses of household beauty.
- More boxes unpacked.
- More books put away.
- Feeling more at home.
- Dutch’s smile.
- His dancing eyes.
- His puppy breath.
- His adoring gaze: “Mommy, I love you so much.”
- Heidi’s sweaty curls after nap.
- The smell of their beds.
- The sound of their play.
- The way they light up when I look in their eyes.
- How Heidi repents: with sobs.
- Seeing her sensitive spirit.
- Recognizing me in her.
- Recognizing Jeff in Dutch.
- Never wanting to leave.
- Neighbor knocking on the door with squash in hand and a friendly face.
- Feeling welcome.
- Only four other houses on the entire lane!
- Thirsty for grace.
- Desperate for Him.
- Grateful for WCC family.
- Opportunities to serve.
- Chances to give.
- Many things to write!
- Being stretched.
- Dutch reading.
- Heidi pretending.
- All of us growing.
- Tired kids falling easy to sleep.
- Candles.
- Ghiradelli brownie leftover from Community Group.
- Hobo dinner.
- Hot bath.
- Clean jammies.
- Tired eyes.
- Fresh laundry.
- Brushed teeth.
- Soft pillow.
- Heavy quilt.
- Aching feet.
- Sleep.
- Knowing He never does … (Psalm 121:4)






