Week's end with thanks

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  • First snow day.
  • Seeking joy.
  • Persevering.
  • God’s funny timing.
  • Celebrating my precious firstborn. Six-years-old!
  • Making adjustments.
  • Overwhelmed by the tremendously generous enthusiasm and response to Friday’s e-book release. Almost 3,000 precious souls have received Plenty. I thank you so, so much. I’m overwhelmed with thankfulness and praying that it can be an encouragement to each one of you as you have been to me.  (and just in case you missed it, it’s still available here!)
  •  My husband, who gives and gives and gives.
  • Danielle, who does the same.
  • Celebrating my dear Janae’s brand new baby girl! Cheering and amazed that we’ll now have children who have the same birthday!
  • A man who leads, loves … and vacuums.
  • Brother, sister-in-law, neice and nephew coming into town today!
  • Momma-in-law coming into town tomorrow!
  • Christmas celebrations.
  • LEGOs everywhere.
  • Boxes everywhere, messes everywhere, chaos everywhere, but the sunlight streaming through the windows and blue sky smiling and every single day a gift. Thank you, Father!
  • Teaching children.
  • Hard days that make us stronger.
  • His love that holds us up. 

Unplugging today for Family Day. Thank you again for your support and enthusiasm for Plenty. Bless you, and thank you for reading!

Plenty {FREE e-book today only — the perfect gift for moms everywhere}

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Fear.

Everywhere I look these days I see it. In the aftermath of recent shootings I see it settle over people like a thick, heavy blanket, pushing down spirits and dampening joy. I see it causing people to lash out at each other. I see it in Facebook statuses and comments. I see it making mothers react, knee-jerk, and cower, afraid of sending their children back into the world. I see it fueling frenzies around the world in response to the end-of-the-world-today prediction. I see it lingering even in laughter, the lightness of the season a thin veil shrouding a fear about the future.

Sometimes I see it in the mirror.

Fear is our enemy, sisters of faith. Because fear causes us to believe, There won’t be enough. There won’t be enough protection. There won’t be enough love for me. There won’t be enough safety and security. There won’t be enough money. There won’t be enough peace. There won’t be enough time in my day. There won’t be enough strength for me to face this trial. There just won’t be enough today.

That’s the lie we face.

Jeff has been asking me, “What do you want your readers to know this year? What one message do you want them to grasp in 2013?”

It’s this:

There is plenty

There will always be plenty to worry about. Not just guns. If we really knew all the dark forces at work every single day  in our world we’d go crazy.

There will always be plenty to do. Our to-do lists will always be longer than our leg, and we will never “arrive” and be “caught up.”

But, there is also plenty for us. 

There is plenty of grace to forgive every fault. There is plenty of mercy to help in time of need. There is plenty of love to cover a multitude of sins. There is plenty of wisdom given to us whenever we ask. There is plenty of courage to make us brave for the battle. There is plenty of strength to help us stand.  There is plenty of power for life and godliness.

There is plenty of joy in God’s presence.

Friends, and specifically you moms, I pray you would know today There is plenty. With Him there is no lack.

And in step with this, I’m thrilled today to offer you my very first E-book entitled,

Plenty: 31 sips of joy for moms everywhere. 

This 31-day devotional is a compilation (re-edited for this book) of 2012’s best Mommyhood posts. Posts such as This Beautiful Waste and Because sometimes, we just can’t remember have been re-edited and accompanied by a Today feature — ideas for living out these truths right now.  What better way to start off the new year than by spending the first 31 days filling your mind and heart with truth, reminding yourself there is PLENTY for each day?

And, for those of you faithful friends who are here today (December 21st) Plenty is FREE on Amazon all day long! 

Consider today getting five or ten copies to slip into the email inboxes or onto the Kindles or iPads of all your favorite mommy-friends? Delivery is immediate, so they can have their special book just in time for Christmas. This is a small, FREE way to give the gift of joy and truth to those precious mamas this Christmas. CLICK HERE to get Plenty FREE on Amazon. (It will then be $0.99 through Christmas Day, and $2.99 after that. Don’t worry, you know I’m cheap so the book will be as well!)

If you’re getting the book free today (and like it) would you please consider “like”-ing it on Amazon, writing a Review, or sharing this post on Facebook, Pinterest, or Twitter (buttons below!)?  Thank you so much for sharing the love so plenty of Mamas can be encouraged as they begin the new year.

THANK YOU dear friends, for your constant love and support. May the next five days be full of anticipation and joy as we celebrate our Savior’s birthday. Thanks for reading.

 

Gift-Giving Guide 2012: Final Recommendations

This is the final post in our Gift-Giving Guide series by Kris Zyp. Read posts one, two, and three here. Enjoy!

As we finish this series, here are several recommendations and final comments.

Bread for the World –

This is a distinctly Christian organization with strong focus on Biblically driven values, and seems to be very productive and influential. I wish that they were more narrowly focused on international issues. While they do advocate on international issues, they spend a lot of their focus on domestic poverty that has lesser returns. http://bread.org/

Micah Challenge –

This is a UK-based organization, that is also a Christian organization (their name comes from Micah 6:8). I love their strong focus on international issues, advocacy for the millennium development goals, which cover the range of important poverty issues. They have also done a good job focusing on injustices that have received relatively little attention, including tax havens, and their impact on developing countries. There were chosen by Live 58 as their advocacy organization to support. However, this is a UK-based organization, and I haven’t found much evidence of their influence in US policy. http://www.micahchallenge.org/

Jubilee –

This organization is based on the Biblical principle of Jubilee, and thus focuses specifically on the issue of debt injustice. Third world debt is well-known to be a major factor in keeping countries in poverty, and this movement’s focus on this issue has helped them to have influence in rather spectacular victories in debt cancellation, freeing billions of dollars for development. http://www.jubileeusa.org

It is also worth noting that while I have been primarily doing comparison in financial terms for consistency, in comparison to other efforts, you can easily have a powerful impact in advocacy with your own time and effort and minimal training. Becoming an effective missionary can take years of theological training and language acquisition, other aid workers often require similar levels of training before they become fully capable workers. On the other hand, with a little bit of research you can instantly start emailing and calling your representatives to affect change.

In addition, there are many aspects of fighting poverty aren’t simply matters of injecting more money; sustainable change really requires policy changes in areas like trade injustice, debt relief, tax havens, immigration constraints that cost the poor billions of dollars every year.

Gift Matching

Gift matching is another catalyst, encouraging others to give to cause by increasing the incentives and potential to attract other donors. This is a great strategy for those that are well-researched and have significant funds to offer. Note, this generally requires some coordination with charities to start such an offer. You can also take advantage of gift matching with donations that have matched offers. Many charities offer multiplicative donations, based on existing donor offers for matching. However, be aware that the actual impact of gift matching can easily be overrated. Typically the donor that offers that matching funds has minimum and/or maximum amounts and the offered matching funds may be released by other donors regardless of whether you give, making the multiplication level an illusion in many cases.


Some Comments on Projects I Didn’t Recommend

Fair trade or charity-connected products

It may sound surprising that someone who writes about social justice issues would not be a fan of fair trade and charity-connected products (buying a product where some money or item is donated to those in need), but these products have simply not demonstrated cost effective benefits to others that are anywhere close to the other recommendations I have made. Fair trade has very limited impact, and can create market distortions that are actually counter-productive. Charity-connected products combine marketing and charity in ways that typically are sub-optimal on both counts.

Now if you were really faced with the isolated decision to buy a fair trade produce vs a standard product, than yes, buy fair trade. But, this ignores the alternate opportunity cost. If you are truly interested in doing the most good, buying a cheaper product, and giving the difference to a high quality charity is almost always the most beneficial approach.

There is a caveat. Buying certain products can have a side-effect in raising awareness. While the economic benefit may be dubious, buying a product that raises awareness of poverty or trade injustices can further the social movements that working towards real policy reforms that do make a difference. I wrote about this in greater depth here: http://thezyps.com/2012/06/14/trade-injustice/. Also, the one decision you can make in choosing between similar products is simply to prefer products from developing countries (even just choosing China over US products is better for fighting poverty).

Animals

Making donations for the purchase of livestock for poor families is common way to contribute. While this is a good idea, and has benefits, there is a lack of any evidence that the benefits are big or long-lasting as the other projects recommended. The complications and ineffectiveness of giving animals has been expressed with more detail by Givewell:http://blog.givewell.org/2009/12/27/gifts-of-livestock-eg-heifer-international/

Still there are a couple of reasons why giving animals is not bad: such donations can be a good entry way to encourage people to start giving (with a gift that appears quite tangible). There is another bright side to giving animals, that may seem surprising: most charities involved in this type of work don’t actually spend most of the donated money on animals. This may be disturbing, but the reality they often spend most of the money on the more important and beneficial details of community development and education that are far productive than the animal gifts themselves.

Making Your Own Evaluations
I have made several recommendation, but you may want to make some of your own assessments. Hopefully these recommendations demonstrate some key ideas of researching the cost and benefits of different approaches. In addition I wanted to share a couple more ideas for assessment:

Often people use program expenditure percentage to evaluate an organization. This is a natural inclination since it is one of the few objective measures that we can really directly compare between charities. However, it is also one of the poorest indicators of the value of the work a charity is doing. First, the difference between the different activities carried out by charities can easily vary in efficacy by hundreds of percentages points, thus the different in program expenditure is usually negligible in comparison. Second, non-program expenditures can be very valuable in growing in charity. Spending more on marketing doesn’t necessarily indicate ineffectiveness, it can easily prove to be an investment in the future of the charity that will pay off in the years to come (charities frequently vary greatly from year to year in percentages).

Instead, If you really want to look at a simple objective numerical indicator, here is what I recommend: look at how much of their funds come from foundations. The unfortunate reality is that success in acquiring funds from individuals is based on the quality of marketing, how well a charity tells it stories, and has little relation to the actual quality of their work. Foundations, on the other hand, exist to make more in-depth evaluations. Foundations pour through statistics, assessing the efforts, sometimes do interviews and read papers on different programs. Therefore foundations have a huge advantage in accurately directing their funds towards organizations that are actually doing good work. While it is not always true, in general, organizations funded by individuals are good at marketing, programs funded by foundations are good at helping the poor.

The most effective giving is directed to those in the deepest global poverty. Not only is it a morally logical to help those in greatest need, it also is most effective. Numerous factors like exchange rates and opportunity for impact, and combine to make dollars spent internationally towards developing countries result in the greatest benefit (see http://thezyps.com/2010/09/20/international-giving/ for more on this).

I hope this giving guide will provide some useful insights and suggestions for you, as you look to obey the Biblical call to help the poor, bringing them the greatest benefits, driven by love that looks to the interests and needs of others. Thank you for reading!   {And thank you, Kris, for writing!}

How to keep from yelling at Ann Voskamp

{Disclaimer: I wrote this last week, in a particularly weak moment, and was going to delete it but felt that perhaps, just perhaps, it might encourage someone today. The TRUTH did get my eyes back on Jesus and put me back on the right course. And, interestingly enough, a little e-book was birthed from all this… Enjoy!}

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Some days I want to yell at Ann Voskamp. (And I know that’s not appropriate.)

“I’m sorry, How DO you write books and homeschool 6 kids and run a farm and clean your house and speak to thousands of people and blog every day AND take pictures of it all and STAY SANE???”

I really didn’t mean to raise my voice.

But some days I can’t breathe. Between parenting, moving, church-planting, pastoring, speaking, writing, blogging, homeschooling … Oh and then there’s cooking, cleaning, organizing.

And I’m supposed to answer my phone too? And check my email?

And my feedreader is full of blog posts from Mamas doing Christmas crafts with their kids.

I’m sorry, Christmas crafts? 

My son’s birthday tomorrow will consist of a cheese pizza and Legos dumped on the dining room table. I dare say I probably won’t be posting pictures on Pinterest.

And every Publisher’s feedback has been the same: You need to build more of a platform. Get your name out there. Guest post. Tweet. Do giveaways. 

Giveaways?

The only thing I want to giveaway right now is my to-do list. Does that count? 

I was so encouraged a few weeks ago when I read one popular blogger say that she was taking a month-long break from writing in order to re-focus her heart and spend time with her kids. But I just clicked there again today and found 5 new posts since then, a completely new blog design, and a brand new book of hers released.

Really?

Does anyone rest?  

*sigh* Oh friends, I hope you never feel like this but just in case you do, let’s remind ourselves of the truth, shall we?

Truth: God has given us exactly the right amount of seconds in our day to accomplish exactly the things He wants us to accomplish.

Truth: We all have different sized milkshakes, different capacities for getting things done. Comparison kills.

Truth: Haste makes waste. (Thank you, Ann!) Jesus never ran and was never in a hurry. He walked this earth with measured steps and calm intentionality.

Truth: Pride pushes and pulls us, driving us on, the cruelest task-master. But gentle grace leads the humble, the life of God the steady source of fuel.

Truth: We have plenty. Though I always feel like I fall short, God has given each one of us plenty for today. I must believe that.

The truth is, I love Ann and all the other phenomenally gifted women out there who are inspiring us with their photos, words, and crafts. And most days I’m happily inspired. But sometimes I must just admit how overwhelmed I feel and take a step back, a deep breath, and maybe a couple ibuprofen, and remind myself  of the truth that sets me free.

Nothing is as important as your heart. So when it starts to turn bitter, sour, God must work His truth in there and fix your heart’s gaze back on Him. And while I’m sorry I vented those thoughts on you, sometimes we have to identify what the “yuck” is in order to let God wash it clean, amen?

Because I really don’t want to yell at Ann Voskamp. Or my husband, or my kids. None of us do, right? We want the life of God to fill us with His peace and give us grace for whatever’s on our plate.

One day–one breath–at a time, we must believe there’s plenty. 

I pray this can encourage you as you finish your week. Thanks for reading.

P.S., It’s kind of funny timing … TOMORROW we’re doing a special giveaway (ha!) for my FIRST e-book! After all my whining, the timing just so happened that God would birth a book entitled, Plenty, and that it would come out the day after this post. Sometimes you just have to laugh. Stay tuned for: