Week's end with thanks

  • This. How on earth can I ever get anything done when she’s so cute?!!
  • That my babies are finally better! (Don’t know if you can see how pale she still is and both have cracked, blistered lips from their fevers. Poor babes!
  • Strawberry cupcakes, pastel pink frosting, fresh rose petals on top. (Thank you, Debra!)
  • Heart-shaped french toast for her birthday dinner.
  • Her, all shy smiles, truly enjoying every minute of her quiet birthday night.
  • Giving her the floor all evening.
  • Listening to her talk.
  • Asking her questions.
  • Letting her pick her outfit: Hello Kitty t-shirt and butterfly-camo pants. 
  • God’s grace and strength for the Faithfully Frugal workshop.
  • Excited to do more!
  • Gracious friends.
  • Support.
  • Love.
  • GRACE.
  • Camaraderie moms.
  • Grace Moments.
  • Sweet Heidi on my lap.
  • The best Valentine’s Day. Truly. All four of us sick as dogs, a pretty miserable day, then dear people bringing us dinner, gifts from WCC staff, toys for the kids. We feasted, played, snuggled and split a heart-shaped Reeses Peanut Butter Cup. Kids to bed, Jeff and I downed Nyquil and fell asleep in each other’s arms at 7:45pm, grinning ear to ear. Feeling so loved.
  • Blog-genius friend.
  • Generosity.
  • Richard Foster.
  • Angela Davis.
  • Bethany Fegle’s smile.
  • Lacey’s pictures of Tiffany.
  • Fun times on KATU.
  • A hysterical laugh when the Casting Director of TLC’s Extreme Cheapskate contacted us to see if we’d like to cast. I told him we probably didn’t qualify since we own two cars and take hot showers…
  • Friday night date with my man!
  • Getting stuck in the crazy rain-storm while out for a run. What do you do but laugh all the way home thinking about how ridiculous you look holding onto your hat in the sideways rain…
  • Hot showers.
  • The feeling of clean.
  • Friends who bring dinner!
  • Hot ‘n sour soup.
  • Orange juice.
  • Tea, tea, tea.
  • Chapters 3 and 4 written …
  • Believing Him.
  • Priscilla Shirer’s blessed teaching!
  • Being with Him each morning.
  • Learning.
  • Growing.
  • Husband who fixes the garbage disposal.
  • That God’s always fixing us … amazing grace.
{Happy weekend; thanks for reading.}

 

#5 Start Menu Planning {52 Bites}

*Note: For those of you interested in the Food Stamp Challenge topic. There is a new documentary out called Food Stamped, a couple who did the same challenge that we did. This documentary is showing this Monday, February 20th at 7pm at the Baghdad Theater at 7pm. Admission is free with donation to Oregon Food Bank.  (For trailer and more information click here.)

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In one hour I’ll get up and turn on the rice-cooker. The chicken stock made itself in the crockpot last night as we slept, and the shredded chicken from last night’s bird is ready to toss into tonight’s Chicken Rice Bake. I’ll double the recipe, add a simple green salad, and take half to our friends who just had a baby.

I love meal-planning.

There are plenty of things I don’t do well. Like buy baby gifts. Just now as I write this I’m realizing I don’t have a gift to give this family. But I have food to give, thanks to a simple system of meal-planning.

Why meal plan? Tsh Oxenreider of SimpleMom lists some great reasons:

• You can extract a grocery list from your menu choices.
• Because you buy only what you need, less food is
wasted.
• You know with plenty of notice what’s for dinner—
no more frantic 5 p.m. craziness.
• Cooking is more enjoyable, because you’ll have what
you need on hand.
• You’ll have more variety, because you’ve planned it.
• It’s healthier, and it cuts down on drive-thru runs.
• It’s cheaper, too, because you’re eating out less, you
can menu plan around your coupons, and you can
intentionally cook with seasonal ingredients.

Convinced? Me too. Meal-planning made it that much easier to take the Food Stamp Challenge and really give our budget and diet a handsome makeover. For us, to maximize our budget and keep things simple, we just have 10-12 meals and eat each one twice a month. I switch things up with the seasons but keep things pretty simple. I’m not winning any culinary prize, but my family’s healthy and fed and we have extra dollars to give away. That’s all the prize I need.

So where can you start? Although I’m including a sample menu with prices and grocery list, I sometimes find (especially with kids) it’s really hard to just copy someone else’s plan. We all have different allergies and aversions. Each family has their own unique food personality. So, here’s an idea of how to make your own:

  1. Determine your meal planning goals. Is your main goal to save time or money? Is it to get more variety or to simplify and make fewer meals?  List our a few guiding principles that will help you determine your menu choices.
  2. Determine how many different meals you’ll make each month. (Does your family love variety and need a different meal every night? Or do you have your basic standbys that everyone loves? Are you trying to limit meat to once a week or grain to once a week? I make about 10 different meals a month.
  3. Determine any items you want to limit or increase. For example, are you trying to limit red meat to once/week. Or vegetarian dishes 3x/week? Trying to add fish once a week? Write out a rough guideline such as: Chicken 2x, meat 1x, fish 1x, beans 1x, vegetarian 1x.
  4. Ask each family member to list 3-4 of their favorite meals. (Give your husband more votes than the kids!!) Make a plan for how every single night can be a meal that pleases your husband and is reasonable for the kids. Perhaps you alternate between “adult” food and “kid” food every other night. Whatever works for your family and your own mission.
  5. Start filling in the blanks.  Whether you’re planning for a week or a month, fill in the spots based on how busy you are that day, how it will go with dinner the night before, and whether you can re-use some portion of the previous night’s dinner (e.g. chicken stock, shredded chicken, leftover tortilla chips, etc.).

A few more things: 

::List out ingredients and think about how long things keep.  For example, if you use cilantro for one meal, use it again in another meal within a few days. Plan to make meals with many perishable items right after your grocery-shopping day and longer shelf-life items later on in the month. At the end of the month we’re usually eating lots of carrots, potatoes, and grains — things that don’t spoil quickly.

::Plan where you will shop and when.  Make your grocery list and a plan for where and when you will shop.

::Plan prep-time: If you’re busy (is there anyone who’s not?), plan some time to chop/cook large amounts of food ahead. I usually spend several hours chopping carrots, onions, and meat and freezing them in large ziplocks. That way I can toss together a soup in mere seconds, dumping frozen pre-chopped veggies into a pot of stock.

Hope this can be helpful! And now, it’s time to go turn on the rice-cooker, let the dinner-making begin. {Thanks for reading!}

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Sample week’s menu, with price/serving:

Breakfast: Oatmeal (pennies/serving)

Snacks: Sliced cheese, apple slices, carrot sticks, bananas, homemade bread.

Lunch: 6 options listed here for pennies/serving.

Dinners:

Monday: Whole Roast Chicken ($6 total), Organic green beans ($5 for 5 lbs. at Costco), homemade bread (pennies). After dinner shred and save 4 cups of chicken. Make stock overnight or the next day.

Tuesday: Hobo Dinner ($6 total). One pound local, grass-fed beef ($4.50 at Afton Field Farms), one pound organic potatoes, one pound organic carrots ($5.99 for 10 lbs. at Costco). Brown and season beef, slice potatoes and carrots, layer in Dutch oven and bake until potatoes are soft. Serve with ketchup.

Wednesday: Chicken Rice Bake ($4 total), Organic peas ($5 for 5 lbs. at Costco)

Thursday: Tortilla Soup ($4 total)

Friday: Quick and Easy Pansit ($4 total)

Week’s dinner cost: $24 total. $6/person. Less than $1/day per person.(Scroll to bottom for grocery-shopping list)

If these recipes aren’t your cup of tea, here are a few other great ones:

Barley Risotto ($3 total)

Baked Mac ‘n Cheese ($6 total)

Delectable Banana Bread ($1.50 total)

And more ways to use any extra chicken stock:

Herbed Chicken and Dumplings (Just use the shredded chicken (from above) and this comes together in a flash.

Tarragon Chicken-in-a-pot Pies (With or without tarragon this is delicious. This is also a great way to use that frozen zucchini from last summer!)

Chicken Vegetable Soup (I skip the parsnips and turnips. The leeks make this delicious!  Just use shredded chicken (from above) and your homemade stock.)

Winter Lentil Soup (You can tweak this soup to use anything. I don’t usually use tomatoes, and often substitute frozen spinach if I don’t have kale on hand–and who usually has kale on hand? I always add chopped carrots or carrot puree.)

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5-Day Dinner Plan Shopping List (assuming basic cooking staples are already in your pantry. Please check recipes to be sure you have these on hand. Also, I rely on FrugalLivingNW for the latest updates on deals around the Portland area.)

:: Thriftway, Azure Standard, online, or other grocery source:

  • 1 Whole chicken (Draper Valley & Zaycon are quality, affordable choices)
  • 1 lb. local grass-fed beef (Afton Field Farm $4.50/lb.)
  • 1 lb. Organic potatoes (Azure)
  • Organic Fuji apples (Azure)
:: Costco:
  • 5 lb. bag organic green beans
  • 5 lb. bag organic peas
  • Yeast (if making homemade bread)
  • 10 lb. bag organic carrots
  • 5 lb. bag organic corn
:: Winco:
  • Whole-wheat flour
  • Tillamook Cheese
  • Bananas
  • Organic Brown rice
  • Onions
  • Taco seasoning
  • Dried black or pinto beans
  • Whole-wheat or brown rice spaghetti noodles
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Happy Birthday, Heidi.

She looks down, shy, but I can see her smiling. I’ve just asked her a question:

“What would you like to do for your birthday?”

It crept up on us. With all the sickness a few other commitments, the day came upon me and I’d hardly had time to consider her special day. Thankfully I’d already snagged the Dora paper plates back in December when I bought the pirate ones for Dutch. I don’t shop much.

She says it quiet in her little bird-chip voice: That she’d like a Dora party, a pink cake, and chicken. Well-planned, I tell her. And as I name friends off she says no to them all.

“Only Nana, Papa & Oma?”  She nods. Only them. And I don’t even have to ask what she will wear–either baggy khaki pants and a white t-shirt (in the picture, above) or her “ball clothes”– a Seattle Seahawk sweatsuit.

My little girl has taught me oh-so-much.

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I remember reading a prayer my mom wrote in my babybook the day I was born. She prayed that God would give her the grace to raise me in the way I should go. Not to mold me into a mini-version of her, but to cultivate me and let me be the girl God made me to be.

What a gift to have a mom like that!

And God answered that prayer. Bless her, my mom must have torn out her hair at times. I’m not much like her (but wish I were!). She chose her battles, let me wear the mis-matched clothes and let my hair go wild. As a teen, when I showed no interest in bread-baking, knitting, or sewing, she smiled and bought me the Air Jordan basketball shoes.

Oh the gift of a mom who let me be me.

And now as I can hardly breathe praying those same words — it’s terrifying to hold a little girl in your arms. To her a little girls’ life. Dutch will kick the world down and be just fine. Will I empower her to fly or will I squash her wings trying to make her what I want her to be? Or worse, trying to make her just like me.

Heidi Elizabeth Patterson, the babygirl God has given me, becomes a little girl today. A 3-year-old girl today with the biggest blue eyes and bunny-rabbit teeth and spiral curls that make me melt.

The girl who often says, “I don’t wan’ be pretty.” The girl who chooses sweatpants and scorns bows and tights. The girl who loves Legos and Startroopers. The girl were wants her hair wild and loves sweatpants … but wants those sweatpants to be pink.

I am learning, every day, who Heidi is. And oh for grace to raise her into the woman God created her to be. To help her find the song God intended her to sing. I don’t know exactly what it will be but I’m so excited to see.

And Heidi, let it be known–I’m crazy-in-love with the girl that you are. I admire you already. I love your go-after-it attitude and your positive outlook on the world. I believe you will bring JOY to the world through your life.

You’ve already brought it to mine.

Happy birthday, my sweet girl. Mama loves you.

{Thanks for reading.}

 

The dinner table, a family altar …

How would you describe your family dinner table?  How do you see your role? Richard Foster, in his book on prayer, says this:

“Today the family table can be a significant altar where meals are celebrated and all the great and small events of our personal histories can be recounted. Here mothers and fathers fulfill the priestly role.”

Consider that the family table can be a significant place of ritual, instruction, fellowship, communion, blessing. What family-dinner activities does your family engage in to create a place of worship?

Ann Voskamp writes that they read Scripture after each meal.

Perhaps you pray together, holding hands?

We all recite the Lord’s Prayer together before we eat.

The new Common Prayer book has readings and meditations for each night of the week.

Growing up my mom read a version from Our Daily Bread, a little plastic bread loaf that sat in the middle of the table.

How can you transform an ordinary meal into a significant altar by inviting Christ into your midst and being intentional with your time around the table? I’d love to hear from you … and thanks for reading.