We sat in her kitchen sipping coffee. She was walking through a trial–a long one–and didn’t have a clear end in sight.

“It’s like we started out, and all these people were at our side. I could see them all around. I could hear them cheering. They all seemed to be on board, running beside us. But as the months have drawn on, I find myself looking around … and can’t see anyone anymore. We’ve made some hard choices to obey what we feel God has called us to do, and for whatever reason, I just can’t see anyone around us anymore. It feels so lonely, and makes me wonder if we’re doing the right thing.”

Have you been there too? I know I have. Although it’s critical that we surround ourselves with like-minded people and learn to run together, it’s equally important that we know how to run alone. Why?

Because we’re bound to spend a lot of time doing just that.

Over the past few weeks we’ve been praying, planning, and preparing for embarking on the adventure of RENEW. We’ve met with lots of people who are considering whether or not to join this venture. And even though I pray every single day that only those who God is calling to join would come, I still find myself–in my flesh–craving a nice-sized crowd around me. Sure, it’s partly because I’m genuinely excited for what God is doing and want as many people as possible to be involved.

But also because it’s just so much more comfortable when a bunch of other people are around. If a whole bunch of us are running this direction then it must be God, right?

Right?

But what if we’re called to run alone? Or with only a few? Does that mean we’re going the wrong direction? Does a crowd = God’s blessing?

Does popularity prove it’s the hand of God?

Oh, friends, these lessons are not easy, and chances are we must learn them again and again. Even though we are wise to consider the wise counsel of others, We cannot determine God’s will based on popular opinion. Crowd-theology will never bring us to God. If we only run as far as everyone else is willing to go, we’ll never really see His kingdom come.

We must learn to run alone. How?

By remembering that we never actually run alone. No matter who is with us and who is not, If we are walking with Jesus we are never running alone.

And as long as we crave the company of man more than the company of God, we will never go far in our Christian walk.  Just this morning in my quiet time I read:

“Nevertheless, I am continually with you; you hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will receive me to glory.

Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is none on earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Psalm 73:23-26

There is none on earth I desire besides You.

It is awesome when a crowd gathers around. When many are there to cheer us on. It’s such a gift to have people are your right and left, running beside.

But we must be a people who run with God. 

HE must be who is at our right hand. Who we desire fellowship with more than anyone or anything else. No matter who comes and goes in our life, who starts with us or ends with us or comes just for a while. We must run with God. Our Source, our Joy, our Strength.

How can you run with Him this week? Thanks for reading. 

7 thoughts on “Because sometimes you have to run alone …”

  1. Yes, Kari, yes. I look at the walls God puts in my path and assume he wants me to change direction (easy), but that isn’t always true. Having people with me can help me OVER the wall (a bit harder, but made easier with the help of many), but let’s face it: He may be asking me to go THROUGH the wall, and that’s typically a duo deal with me and the Christ, and He is enough 🙂

  2. Great encouragement Kari. Running ‘alone’ is a way I have come to truly experience His presence. it was here I began to learn the reality of His hope and promise. “The sun will not smite you by day, Nor the moon by night.” (Psalm 121:6 NASB) I CAN PLOD!!!

  3. Kari: Thank you for openly sharing your concerns,: I have shared with Jeff: That I know you are called by our Lord to step out and possess the land, in Oregon City. Frances and I are praying for you, and know how lonely it can feel, But God says he is with you and will take you into the Land, “You are My servant, I have chosen you and have not cast you away, Fear not, for I am with you. Be not dismayed for I am your God I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand” Isaiah:41: 9-10 Praying and hear to help. Bob & Frances

  4. So, so true! Personally, during my faith journey I have learned that at times running alone is when the Lord will bring us the closest to Him. Let’s be honest, in a crowd there is often smog. It is when we are alone with God that often the smog rises and we see so much clearer.

  5. Thought this would encourage you & your friend. Galatians 1:15-16. This post made me think of the last part 🙂

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